Situation Vacant: Guardian Angel

It's been more than 6 years that I have become an integral part of the HR fraternity. Across various roles that I have taken up, filling up vacant situations has been one of my core responsibilities. I have done several hirings for others. It suddenly occured to me that I too am in need of a resource for myself.

Last few weeks or rather I should say many weeks have been extremely exhausting. A lot has been happening at work front while personal front has been more or less uneventful. As a true Capricorn, I do not welcome frequent changes very easily and so I end up feeling morose.

To help resolve this, I have devised a plan which should hopefully work. I have decided that I will hire a special someone. Someone, who shall help me sail through these tides. Inviting applications for the following position:

Position Title: Guardian Angel

Purpose: To protect and guide me

Position Description:

1. To be by my side day and night
2. To realign my focus whenever my vision gets blurry
3. To monitor the choices I make
4. To offer me anchorage when my heart skips a beat and my zest for life takes a dive down
5. To rejoice every feat that I achieve
6. To caution me before I hit a rough patch on a bumpy journey

Location of Position: Wherever I go, my Guardian Angel should follow

Position Start Date: At the earliest

Compensation: My indebtedness, forever.

Application Deadline: 15th July'12

May the best one gets selected...

The Cocktails Of My Life...

Everyone's going gaga over the latest tunes from the movie Cocktail. While driving to work yesterday, I happened to listen to one of the songs and a thought came to my mind. Which cocktails would define the nomenclature of the equations I share with my dear ones?

So here I am, back again, jotting down my crazy thoughts. Before I take this forward, I also took the liberty of choosing other beverages apart from Cocktails to define what I share/ had shared with those who are/ were special to me. But I still want this writeup to be called - The Cocktails Of My Life...

I'm not going to be partial to any one and thus my listings would be based on chronological order.

1. Nicku & I

Bhai & I truly share a bittersweet symphony. Sometimes we fight like wild warriors and at other times we are the best buddies. No matter what I say to him, I know it for a fact that he is always going to be there for me. He is my 4 am drink buddy. He is the only one who could bail me out when I bungle up really bad and I'm on the verge of facing mom's ire. We are not very vocal about a lot of stuff but we talk without the vocal chords doing the needful for us.

 2. Doc & I

Doc & I have been friends for 22 years. From fiery bum-chums, we have transformed into matured spirits in the years gone by. We have learnt to overcome our shortcomings and didn't let them mar our relationship. Our lives have gotten entwined with several flavors of mixers ( read as -situations that life throws at us) and we worked around them together. What Old Monk does for us in winters ( it keeps us warm), Doc does for me everytime the need be.

3. Rachu & I

Rachu & I are just like the Merlot & Cabernet Sauvignon based blended wines. Both these are known for their softer, fruitier, and earlier-maturing trait. At the same time, these also display several aromas and flavors – black cherry, currant, cedar, and green olive – along with mint, tobacco and tea-leaf tones. We both bring these flavors in each other's life. We have shared every chapter of our lives together,ever since we've met each other. We have matured with age and time has only added flavor to what we share. With every passing year, our togetherness will attain a new milestone.

4. Ladoo & I

Ladoo & I were like a Vodka Martini. Heady as alcohol & had our share of flavoring too. We were bestest of buddies for almost 10 years and then we were shakened up. I wish I had a time machine to go back and set things right but all wishes do not come true. I truly cherish our times together and will always pray for him to be happy in his life.

5. MSA & I

 

 MSA & I are like refreshing Mojitos. We have known each other for almost 11 years though in between we had lost touch for quite a while. When we connected back, it was just like the old times and it felt very nice to add back a dear one in my ever diminishing gang. He has always brought a breeze of freshness into my life and helped me in keeping up my zing quotient. Thanks to him, I also met up with one of the sweetest soul I have ever known- his darling wife Prabh. God bless you both.

6. Jitesh & I

Our friendship started with miscommunication. During our college orientation role play, he spoke in  favor of a "Smoking Zone" and that alongwith his allergy ( he used to cough quite a bit) led me to believe that he smokes. Many months later, we corrected my preconcieved notion and went on to become great friends. I relate us to the Glen series of scotch which are world famous for their flavor. The years just add to the bond shared by us. It's because of him, I got to know Meghs and I totally love her company. Hoping to see you guys soon.

7. AS & I

I don't remember how AS & I got talking. We met during my stint with a hospitality group. All I remember is that we used to be big time foodies.  Everytime we would step out for some work, we would munch first and then think of doing the work. Be it our trip to Chandi Chowk or to Khan Market, our munchings used to be the highlight of these outings. I find our times together to be as refreshing as Margaritas. Despite the fact that both of us are extremely busy in our respective lives, we always take out time to share our joys and sorrows. I hope that never changes.




8. Hocus Focus & I

Hocus & I were like a house on fire. Flaming Lamborghini is what crosses my mind every time I recall our times together. In a city of strangers, I was looked after by him and his family. Our times together, always bring a smile on my face. May he get his share of happiness and success.

9. Yamini & I

Yamini personally loves wines ( correct me if I'm wrong Yams!!) but I would relate us to heady concoction of Vodka & Bacardi Breezer. This combination is all about craziness and that's what we did during our times together. Her abode was my second home during my short trip to Bangalore and I fell in love with each nook and corner of her Camelot. May God shower you and your family with abundance and happiness.

10. SS & I

Now you must be wondering, where did this Coffee Cup pop up from, while we were talking about its alcoholic siblings. Well SS brought a flavor to my life which was refreshing and only a cup of coffee can do that to you. Though we connected for a very minuscule moment in time but those days would always be etched in my memory. May you reach the zenith of success in your personal & professional life.

I think it is enough of concoctions for one day and my head is already swirling. But all said and done, I want to thank each one of you for being  a part of my life, making my days special, making me feel special. You all will always be dear to me. I now sign off with my favorite tune as a dedication to each of you...

"Tumhi din chadhe, Tumhi din dhale
Tumhi ho bandhu, sakha tumhi
Every time every minute all the day
Tumhi ho bandhu, sakha tumhi"

Am Gonna Change...

Am gonna change in the times to come...

Shall blow away the winds of monotony that surrounded me & made me numb...

Am gonna say goodbye to the recluse in me...

Shall shed away the weight that kept adding around me...

Am gonna bring the soul within me to life...

Shall reach out to torch bearers who add zing and make us feel alive...

Am gonna welcome new friends with open arms...

Shall still stay alert and won't let someone cause any harm...

The song of life says that you have to go on...

You may stand still for a while but eventually the show must go on...

Each day tells me that this stillness has to fade away...

It's just a matter of time that I manage to steer clear, I will sway... ( for good)

Am Gonna sit back and see how life reacts to this change...

Yes! I have decided...

Am Gonna Change...

Don't Hold Back... Say It All...

I am an avid follower of several tele-series that are broadcasted on Star World & Zee Cafe. One of these is running in its final season and the last few episodes are being telecasted. Every episode of this particular series ends with a wise learning.

Yesterday was no different. What they shared yesterday, struck a chord in my heart. The closing lines of one of the protagonist of the series were very close to what I'm going to share now-

" In our lives, we want to say so many things to people who are dear to us but actually fail to do so. We hide away small memories from the people who were a part of it. Life gifts you with dear ones and takes them away.

If we do not share/ speak out these small memories or itsy bitsy pieces of thoughts passing by our hearts and minds then we haven't lived out lives well. We haven't done justice to our dear ones.

If we don't speak out today then when we are gone, we take away with us what we could have shared - a memory, an anecdote, an incident, a feeling and so on so forth.

If we won't say then who would?  If we don't say it today then life would soon loose its meaning and you never know when it would be too late to share".

So don't hold back....Say it all to your dear ones as if there is no tomorrow...

Say it all, so that you are at peace- You gave it your best shot...

Life is too short to hold back so why let remorse take up space by not sharing what we could have?

So just remember-

" Don't hold back...Say It All..."

The Sad Shade Of Green...

I have always loved the color green and the many shades of green.

 It has always made me happy.

Till some years back even my wardrobe reflected my bias towards this color.

Up untill today...

Somewhere I saw this color where I was hoping that I will not get to see it...

Green has faded to a shade sadder for me...

Time Shall Take It's Own Course...

For all those out there who think I matter to them the most...

Stop worrying about me...

Time shall nip your worries in it's own course...

For all those out there who think I'm getting a raw deal...

Stop thinking too much...

Time shall strike a deal for me, it's own course...

For all those out there who have parted ways with me...

Each of you held a special place in my heart...

Time shall fill those void spaces (or maybe not) in it's due course...

For all those out there who glance at me with a suspicious eye...

Let your eyes rest...

Time shall correct your vision in it's due course...

For all those out there who expect a lot from me...

Just remember that hope floats...

Time shall prove right your hopes, in it's due course...

Let me live in peace...

Let me live, the way I want to...

Let Time set my life right in it's due course...

If ever I feel bogged down...

I shall reach out to each one of you...

And then we shall see...

With time, who helps me stay afloat...