Weekend and movies have been going hand in hand for me and this has been happening for quite some time now. So when came saturday, I surfed all the movies that were being screened across various channels and don't know why but chose to see - "Crazy...Stupid...Love...".
The story of this movie revolves around a middle aged husband whose life changes dramatically when his wife asks for a divorce. He seeks to rediscover his manhood with the help of a new found friend. The high point of the movie for me was when the husband said -
"If you know that you have found the one...don't give up...keep trying".
Well he said it in reference to the love of one's life. I want to write about it in a broader context.
"If you find your soul mate...let that person know and don't loose them...
If you find the love of your life...let them know before it's too late...it's a different thing whether they reciprocate or not...
If you find a good friend...keep them close coz with each passing year our circle of dear ones shrinks...
If you find a confidante...keep them closer to your heart and reciprocate what they do for you...
You have to start by letting them know that they hold a special place in your hearts and lives. They may choose not to reciprocate what you feel and you will have to accept that. When such a thing happens, some of us stay unperturbed and move on while some...linger on to the memories, unsure as to whether they should move on or not and then there are some who pause their lives then and there.
Love makes you crazy, it makes you behave like a stupid at times, but I guess in the end all that happens is worth it.
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